Photo by: silent-shot

It rained all last week here in the AZ, and the wife and I passed our fair share of accidents on the road.

Coming from a slightly wetter climate than my wife, these sightings often lead to short conversations between us about driving habits between different states.

The thought I always seem to return to is that when roads are wet they play a trick on you.

Most of the time you feel just as in control as you are on a dry road, and most of the time you might be. But it only takes one awkward puddle, or slick spot, or glare (or another bad driver) to take that control away. And on a freeway that’s all it takes.

The best thing, as most people know,  is to simply give yourself a reasonable buffer between you and other cars.

Some months, for my family,  it’s tempting to live right at our means, or even beyond – but it’s just like hugging a car on the freeway. Most of the time we’ll get through the month just fine, but it only takes one instance of “life” to take that control away.

Try to live within your means and give yourself a bit of a buffer. The more you save each month, the safer you’re driving. You may run into heart pounding situations (that may leave you using colorful language), but you just might have enough room to avoid an emergency.

Photo by: notsogoodphotography

Contrary to popular belief, I’m not very passionate about budgets.

Budgets are kinda boring.

Ok, they’re very boring.

I am, however, passionate about the benefits of budgeting.

• I love showing people how to be in control of one of the most influential factors of their lives.
• I like sharing how to stop wasting money on things you don’t value.
• It’s impressive to me when somebody knows their 95% enough to say ‘no’ to something they can’t afford.
• I get excited about someone buying something they really want, and knowing they can afford it without credit.
• I love the idea of parents falling asleep knowing their family’s needs are met this month.
• It’s exciting to think that people are using their budget to put a little away every month.

And it’s fun to write, and post, and hope it makes a difference.

My Awesome Nephew

A little early for a Christmas picture, isn’t it?

Well, that’s actually the point today.

Last week I wrote about Budgeting for Expected Costs, and my little sister (who, on a side note, is a thrift store ninja master) brought up that the holidays are a perfect example.

Most of us are planning on spending at least some money for the holidays. (Wordy debates of how right or wrong this is can be found all over the internet if you want to join one.)

Now is a great opportunity to start building funds in your budget for trips back home, gifts, parties, home-made-gift materials, ugly sweaters, Pink Nightmares – anything you and your family might do to celebrate in your own way.

You can make categories – as general as one big “Christmas” category, or as many specific categories as you might want – and fund them as money comes in, or move funds in them from less important categories for a while. The more funded they are, the less inclined you might be to go beyond your means this year – and the less guilty you’ll feel when you find the perfect gift.

How do you use your budget when the holidays start?